When being hit by the problem, he will strive to find a way out. Not infrequently they become withdrawn and aloof. When asked what the problem is, they prefer silent. Sometimes they also showed changes in properties such as irritability, more sensitive, and more melancholy.
His attitude like this certainly makes you confused what to do. One-one, you are actually getting him away and relationships become chaotic. So what should be done?
1. Do not Force
Usually men became more subdued when he was being upset even though you've always wondered what the cause of their turmoil. We recommend that you do not force him to talk, it's better to give support to the words positive and motivating. With the support you give, it can make them feel flattered and tried to get up.
2. Allow a moment
Besides turned into quiet, they also often become reclusive and prefer to shut myself in the room. Let him do things that he deserves to be, because in fact he needs an outlet when he was upset. But if the continuous silence in the room, invite to go outside or simply enjoy the fresh air.
3. Be Quiet
Do not easily triggered anger when a man is upset. Because they can not think long when upset that their behavior can be rough. "Be calm and say firmly on the hope and belief that it could be better," said a woman who was familiarly called Nunki Wolipop interview via e-mail, Monday (03/23/2015).
4. Give Praise
Do not hesitate to give praise positive tone even though it is a trivial matter. Men really appreciate the positive response that was brought from her partner even though he was being upset. If so sure mate appreciate and support it wholeheartedly, it can add spirit to move on.
5. Invite Sports
Dyah Ayu psychologist Pasha added that the man who was upset should be encouraged to exercise. According to some studies revealed that exercise can release stress hormones so that a person becomes more relaxed
6. Entertainment
Another way to entertain couples who were upset is to give a motivational book that can make a re-energized life. If you do not like reading a book, you can give it a DVD movie or music, but the songs chosen not mellow song.
"Precisely with a mellow song he could increasingly sad. Love the song to make it more passionate spirit to live," added Ayu.
7. Invite Him to Know Your World
Men can become upset because of insecure with her partner. To overcome this problem by Ayu, you can take him to get to know the world you that he's not upset and feel less attention.
"For example girlfriend likes join the photography club, try to get her boyfriend. Both can gain knowledge for something new and a boyfriend who can better understand the world of the girls," says psychologist at once professional
coaching it.
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